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How To Maintain Balance Between The Present & Future
In my life, I see many people who are in a hustle bustle and stay tensed for their future. These people are so much tensed for their future that they forget about the happiness that they can get by acting in a positive way in their present. The future tension just covers our present and makes it disappear in a hollow darkness. Office meetings, tomorrow’s presentation, planning an escape from boss’ scolding and other stuff like that just distracts us from the present we are living in. We don’t even get a little time for ourselves and to celebrate our hard work with some relief. Taking out time for our beloved ones also becomes a task which looks very hard to get accomplished.
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 Don’t just cook, start eating too
The focus just stays on the future which means planning for the upcoming and we always think that this will make our life perfect but as usual, the result is always the same. So we need to get out of this crap and start implementing the ideas that get snapped in our mind. You yourself are the writer of your life you have to keep writing what you think or else the book of life will never even begin. Start with a blurred idea which will always lead to a clear end.
Be more appreciative for little things
Don’t just go on with work and the hectic schedule. we need to take out some time for the little happy things in our life and appreciate them to the fullest as small happy things will result in a big one. I have learned it with the time that there are numerous things in our daily life for appreciating but we often ignore and do worry about the thing which will happen in future.
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 Be attentive and don’t do repetitive things
You must have noticed my irregularities with my blog. These days, I do just one post in a week. I took this decision after thinking for a long time. Actually, I was not able to adjust my blog schedule with my other responsibilities which made me tensed and worried. Because in all this my whole schedule used to get messed up. Then I decided to do it. Actually, we have to limit our work bounds as without boundaries we can go on and on. So you need to select one thing at a time and get along with it and soon you will be surprised to see so much of your tasks completed.
Take out some personal time for yourself and enjoy it to the fullest
If you want to be a human and don’t want to lead a robotic life you need to take out some private time for yourself and just do whatever you want to and enjoy it to the fullest.
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So, in the end, I would conclude by saying that only focusing on future is not the way to go, you have to give some time to the present as well so as to maintain a balance between them. Thinking about your life is important but getting some time off and living for yourself is also important. These are the ways I think are the most probable and will help others too.
Coming to my outfit-
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I wanted to dress up a little but stay warm at the same time. So, I slipped into this beautiful black and grey dress and a pair of grey tights (because black’s too boring). I love these tights, they are so gorgeous and keep my legs pretty warm at the same time! Layered up with a classy trench coat to keep myself warm on a nice sunny winter afternoon. Completed my outfit with my trusted ankle boots and a lovely new green bag. What do you think about this muted yet classy winter outfit?
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I’m wearing:

Trenchcoat – Old Here
Dress – Old Here
Tights – Old Here
Boots – Old Here
Bag – Lulu & Sky

32 Comments

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 15:53

      Thanks a lot Gemma <3

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 15:55

      I love wearing tight with a dress in winter. Thank you dear 🙂

  1. jodie filogomo
    December 11, 2018 / 12:33

    Gosh your words are so true. That’s exactly how I used to be. I think I’m somewhat better now that I’m retired, but it’s hard when you’re in that mindset.
    This outfit Rakhshanda??? It’s fabulous!! First I adore those tights. That’s exactly what I pull out now that it’s cold outside. And then the green purse. I was just looking at some the other day because they add a fun pop of color!!
    XOXO
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:15

      Thanks a lot, Jodie, you are right, It’s really difficult when we struggle in this situation. Now with one post, I can do all my other responsibilities without any tension.

  2. Geniussr
    December 11, 2018 / 21:46

    Wonderful post…love your outfit and you look stunning…that coat is just awesome…thanks for inspiration…❤️

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    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:16

      Thanks sweatheart!!

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:39

      Thanks dear <3

  3. Ritu Kalra
    December 12, 2018 / 07:01

    First of all I love ur outfit..second I love the thoughts around maintaining a balance between present & future…we need to live the present to the best while planning for future..

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:18

      Totally agree with you Ritu, Thanks <3

  4. December 12, 2018 / 07:38

    I love your outfit…the combination of colours looks really cool…

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:19

      Thank you honey 🙂

  5. December 12, 2018 / 07:43

    Gorgeous and I love these tights lots too 🙂 x

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:25

      Thanks Kizzy <3

  6. December 12, 2018 / 10:22

    Thank you for sharing such an inspiration post dear… N u look too pretty my girl..

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:26

      Thanks dear <3

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:27

      Thanks a bunch beautiful <3

  7. December 12, 2018 / 12:36

    Such a great post !
    As my husband in the military, the future is so uncertain for us but in a way I think I like it. It makes me want to enjoy each moment because we don’t know what’s gonna happen tomorrow or where we’re gonna be.
    And you look really pretty in this dress.
    xx
    Margot
    https://troughthepasturesofthesky.com

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:31

      Thanks a million, honey, you are absolutely right, so true that we don’t know what will happen the next moment so why not enjoy the time we have today.

  8. December 12, 2018 / 14:39

    You are looking gorgeous as always. I absolutely loved the whole outfit especially the coat.

    • rakhshanda
      Author
      December 12, 2018 / 16:38

      Thanks, Megha <3

  9. December 12, 2018 / 15:48

    I loved how you merge your thoughts with your dress and the outfit is stunning

  10. December 13, 2018 / 01:04

    I love the idea of adding one pop shade when wearing monotones like black or grey. Here the green bag stands out and looks so amazing.

  11. December 13, 2018 / 05:08

    What a great article! I agree, we often forget to live in the present. Future is always uncertain, so we should give up on trying to control it. Finding time to rest is so important!
    You look gorgeous. Beautiful dress and tights combination.

  12. December 13, 2018 / 11:17

    loving the haircut…beautiful and stunning as always 🙂 very well written post…

  13. December 15, 2018 / 12:52

    I can so relate, as I m one of this kind. Awesome outfit, the clutch breaks the montony of the outfit beautifully
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  14. December 20, 2018 / 09:00

    Your outfit today really shows off your personality, I like it!

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