We all know that everything is getting modern and hi-tech as the time is passing by, but do you know that with passing time human emotions are just getting endangered and soon they might also get extinct with the rapid waves of time? In earlier times also the human nature was not that much predictable but it could be but in this modern era, the needle of prediction has just halted on the pointer which is indicating cruelty. Still, the darkness always has an opening of light.
This world is still balanced due to some of the kindness and emotions left in it. These emotions are really difficult to find as not everyone shows them. We wake up in the morning, glance at the headlines in the newspaper and find them full of cruelty and injustice. We meet various people, converse some of them and find most of them selfish, self-centered and self-obsessed.
Sometimes, I try to have a peek inside me, try to know what actually I’m and in what way people around me think about my nature? Whenever I tried it, I thanked Almighty, because most of the time I have felt satisfied with myself.
I had read a phrase a few years ago ‘HAVING A SOFT HEART IN A CRUEL WORLD IS A COURAGE, NOT WEAKNESS’ which touched me but the depressing part of this is that often people consider a soft-hearted person weak and powerless. I also used to think about the same manner about myself. I am a very emotional person, I shed tears alone when everything is not going ok but never tried to open myself in front of others. A fear always resided in me that it will make me weak. I often used to feel that I’m not strong enough like others, not able to take a tough decision in life. I felt this way for a long time but it changed with time, coincidently I met different people who were of a similar nature like me. I got to know that being emotional is not my weakness but that is my actual strength. I have a heart full of sentiments for others, I always try to listen and understand the feelings of people around me. I realized the superior part of my nature and also came to be aware of how I should protect my soft heart in a cruel world.
Actually, the world needs such people badly. you will surely find some good and pure souls who still have this kindness and empathy left within them, but the only malicing thing is that these souls are very few. Kindness is the feeling that one has to keep within oneself in order to survive otherwise we won’t take any time in getting disappeared in the crowd. I realized that protecting your heart in this cold world is the thing that only matters. It would be really hard to keep your patience when you are being mocked at but if this weakness can become my strength then I am fine with that.
Coming to my outfit
What are the essential items of clothing that come to your mind when it comes to formal Wear? Let me guess, a white shirt would top the list. I usually don’t dress up formally because I don’t work in an office or something. But then I found these lovely plaid pants and thought they’d look great with a crisp white shirt. So, I styled it with this gorgeous white blouse and some patent black pumps. It’s a simple, smart and quintessential formal outfit. I love these comfortable pants and I think there are so many ways to style them. How would you style a pair of plaid pants?
I’m wearing:
Plaid Pants – Femme Luxe
Shirt – Zara
Pump – Lulu & Sky
Bag – Lavie
I agree with you. I believe there isn’t enough people with a soft heart, we need more empathy and compassion in the world. You look wonderful and this place looks so peaceful!! I hope you have a great week ahead xx
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Thanks a lot, doll, agree with you.
You look super cute and comfy! I really love the pants! xx
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Thanks, babe 🙂
i totally agree with you that soft-hearted people are usually the most courageous and the strongest. it doesn’t hurt to show a little bit of kindness in this cruel filled world.
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You are right, we all should do it whenever we get a chance. Thanks, dear <3
i totally agree with you that soft-hearted people are usually the most courageous and the strongest. it doesn’t hurt to show a little bit of kindness in this cruel filled world.
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What a fabulous saying Rakhshanda. We all need to practice more kindness. It’s what makes us feel better too.
Love those pants too!!
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Thanks a lot, Jodie, a little bit of kindness will make this world better.
What a chic look! I love those trousers. And yes so true! It’s difficult to be soft in a hard world, but it takes a lot of strength and courage. It really takes not caring what the hard people think, because they will always judge kindness as weakness unfortunately.
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It’s really unfortunate that people judge your soft heart your weakness.
This is so true. And so sad in our society that we do not have more respect for having a soft heart. Though I feel life here is fleeting and when one crosses it is all about having a soft heart as there is nothing else no distractions…
Love your look and how cool to shoot in this field!
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It’s really sad, you can see it often in your daily life but it’s good that we often meet some persons who always ready to help others and show their great nature.
You look so effortlessy chic! I love those pants, they look great on you!
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Thanks a lot, sweetie 🙂
I couldn’t agree more with having a soft heart and looking inside yourself. Love these trousers!
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Having a soft heart is a blessing not fault. Thanks, dear <3
Oh Rakhshanda, those with soft hearts can only be this way because they are so strong. The world has become an ugly place lately so we really all need to practice kindness as much as possible.
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You are absolutely right Rowena, Thank you so much.
What you say is so true! I feel like this everywhere I go, and whenever I try to express it I feel judged by comments like “that’s how the whole world works, you need to adapt, grow thicker skin, don’t let it affect you”. The world is where it is right now because of people who are not affected by anything.
Thank you for talking about this
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Exactly, I have seen it many times. People are becoming senseless day by day but it is good that we have people like you too.
Yes we really have to be kind to each other or even to the nature which is around us.
I love this outfit. You look so chic. Theses pants are fabulous.
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Thanks a lot, sweetheart <3
This is so true. I’m actually going through a situation where I have to be softer than usual and it is making me so happy to be showing as different than everyone else. 🙂 Love the outfit, very business woman like!!!
Now that I am back on this scene looking fwd to lots of new content from you 🙂
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Isn’t it? I always feel satisfaction and pleasure whenever I do such things. Kindness not only gives happiness to others but to yourself. Thanks, dear.
I love this phrase you read and I know for sure that you defininitely belong to the people with a good and golden heart. You look wonderful in your classy look!
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Thanks to my lovely friend <3
You’re welcome and have a very happy week my lovely friend <3 xx Rena
I too used to think that being soft hearted is a weakness. That it is necessary to be tough and to hold your guards up at all times. When I was going through some difficult times, this proved to be challenging. So I slowly started opening myself up to people and it honestly made the biggest difference. Being soft-hearted, or emotional does not make you weak. Neither does crying or opening up to others. It just shows that you’re human! Anyway, you look absolutely amazing in this outfit. Love how you’ve styled it.
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Beiing soft hearted is good for the ones who love us, other just want to take undue advantage of it and want to hurt us as they know they are causing pain .. I have developed a nature of being only with my family, hence have very little friends and very happy being like that
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