We all know that everything is getting modern and hi-tech as the time is passing by, but do you know that with passing time human emotions are just getting endangered and soon they might also get extinct with the rapid waves of time? In earlier times also the human nature was not that much predictable but it could be but in this modern era, the needle of prediction has just halted on the pointer which is indicating cruelty. Still, the darkness always has an opening of light.
This world is still balanced due to some of the kindness and emotions left in it. These emotions are really difficult to find as not everyone shows them. We wake up in the morning, glance at the headlines in the newspaper and find them full of cruelty and injustice. We meet various people, converse some of them and find most of them selfish, self-centered and self-obsessed.
Sometimes, I try to have a peek inside me, try to know what actually I’m and in what way people around me think about my nature? Whenever I tried it, I thanked Almighty, because most of the time I have felt satisfied with myself.
I had read a phrase a few years ago ‘HAVING A SOFT HEART IN A CRUEL WORLD IS A COURAGE, NOT WEAKNESS’ which touched me but the depressing part of this is that often people consider a soft-hearted person weak and powerless. I also used to think about the same manner about myself. I am a very emotional person, I shed tears alone when everything is not going ok but never tried to open myself in front of others. A fear always resided in me that it will make me weak. I often used to feel that I’m not strong enough like others, not able to take a tough decision in life. I felt this way for a long time but it changed with time, coincidently I met different people who were of a similar nature like me. I got to know that being emotional is not my weakness but that is my actual strength. I have a heart full of sentiments for others, I always try to listen and understand the feelings of people around me. I realized the superior part of my nature and also came to be aware of how I should protect my soft heart in a cruel world.
Actually, the world needs such people badly. you will surely find some good and pure souls who still have this kindness and empathy left within them, but the only malicing thing is that these souls are very few. Kindness is the feeling that one has to keep within oneself in order to survive otherwise we won’t take any time in getting disappeared in the crowd. I realized that protecting your heart in this cold world is the thing that only matters. It would be really hard to keep your patience when you are being mocked at but if this weakness can become my strength then I am fine with that.
Coming to my outfit
What are the essential items of clothing that come to your mind when it comes to formal Wear? Let me guess, a white shirt would top the list. I usually don’t dress up formally because I don’t work in an office or something. But then I found these lovely plaid pants and thought they’d look great with a crisp white shirt. So, I styled it with this gorgeous white blouse and some patent black pumps. It’s a simple, smart and quintessential formal outfit. I love these comfortable pants and I think there are so many ways to style them. How would you style a pair of plaid pants?
Plaid Pants – Femme Luxe
Shirt – Zara
Pump – Lulu & Sky
Bag – Lavie