Sometimes, we plan something very exciting but due to some major or minor happenings in our life the plan becomes impossible to accomplish. We start blaming our luck for this and become very aggressive which tenses our love ones and becomes a cause of trouble to them. This has happened with me countless of times. Another incident that clicks in my mind when we are talking about love and trouble is that once my sisters & I planned to visit Mussoorie where we could all get together and spend a little time without any kids and household work but as fate had something else in its mind ,the situation arose such that we had to cancel the plan. However, there are times when happiness knocks on our doors when least expected and such moments must be cherished to the fullest!
Last time when I was in Delhi, the schedule of that visit was very hectic. My husband was admitted again for 10 days and my life returned back to the hospital. Every morning getting up early, having a cup of tea and then running to the hospital. Spending the entire day with my husband in the hospital and then returning back home at night. It was so tiring but what could be done? We stayed at my sister’s place. we wanted to spend some times together but that was not possible.
On the 10th day my husband got discharged from the hospital and it soon got settled that we had to go back to Dehradun due to some arriving guests at our home. My sister was sad and so was I. We couldn’t spend some good time with each other. Then suddenly we decided to go for shopping. We had no idea before leaving as to what to shop. The only thing in our mind was to spend some time together before going back home. We booked a cab to the nearest mall. In the cab we were discussing about how we were planning to spend time together but it didn’t happen as expected. Suddenly my sister, bursting with excitement, planned to click some pictures of mine.( she is an artist and always keeps her camera in her handbag ) I also agreed with this plan ( hey, like other fashion bloggers I am always ready to be clicked 🙂 🙂 ) and then we told the cab driver to turn to Jamia University.
The University campus is a place where you can shoot your photos without any hesitation. It is a very peaceful and beautiful location for clicking pictures. If you remember, I had my first outdoor shoot at that place. You all know I’m a very shy person and don’t like to be clicked in public places where people stare at you from head to toe. We reached Jamia and were wandering in the garden. The garden of this place is amazing. I really love the natural beauty and the greenery they have maintained there. We clicked lots of photos of each other and had a lot of fun.
Our next stop was the market where we checked out some latest collection of clothes, discussed on it and then refused. I only bought some jewelries and handbags and returned back to our way. But we didn’t go home. On the way, we stopped for street food. We ate lot of Gol guppey ( A delicious Indian street food) bought a large roasted corn. We sat on a bench, talked, eat and took some selfies. Whenever I see those selfies, they make me smile.
Today, while I was uploading these pictures, I was missing those moments badly. That lovely evening always will be alive in my heart.
Make plans but don’t get disheartened if they are not accomplished
I don’t mean at all that that we should stop planning things, but as I have learned but never feel dishearten when things don’t be successful according to your plan. Always prepare yourself for a plan B. What if things do not succeed. The other thing that I learned and am still learning, is that live the happy moments that come to your way. Never ignore them in hope of finding some bigger causes of happiness.
You will never have this day again so make it count
I have realized that i have lost many moments which I could have added to the album of happiness of my life. As the heading predicts we should never lose a moment because that moment can change your life to a great extent either positively or negatively, the way you want it to be. Life is full of Ups and Downs, it can be compared to a road on which a car is smoothly moving and suddenly a speed breaker comes, jolts, disturbs your life and is then left behind and this is how the cycle goes on.
Realize that the present moment is all you have
“Your fault realize the mistake, Every moment is precious to make”. Just keep this thought in your mind that the the moment you live live it to your fullest. It can be the last moment of your life so why not to make it a part of your memories till your last breath. Share your happiness with others, help needy people and do some extraordinary work for others and leave a smile on their faces.
Tail-Cut Kurti – Jabong
Sandals – shoetopia
Handbag – Lavie