How To Maintain Balance Between The Present & Future
In my life, I see many people who are in a hustle bustle and stay tensed for their future. These people are so much tensed for their future that they forget about the happiness that they can get by acting in a positive way in their present. The future tension just covers our present and makes it disappear in a hollow darkness. Office meetings, tomorrow’s presentation, planning an escape from boss’ scolding and other stuff like that just distracts us from the present we are living in. We don’t even get a little time for ourselves and to celebrate our hard work with some relief. Taking out time for our beloved ones also becomes a task which looks very hard to get accomplished.
Don’t just cook, start eating too
The focus just stays on the future which means planning for the upcoming and we always think that this will make our life perfect but as usual, the result is always the same. So we need to get out of this crap and start implementing the ideas that get snapped in our mind. You yourself are the writer of your life you have to keep writing what you think or else the book of life will never even begin. Start with a blurred idea which will always lead to a clear end.
Be more appreciative for little things
Don’t just go on with work and the hectic schedule. we need to take out some time for the little happy things in our life and appreciate them to the fullest as small happy things will result in a big one. I have learned it with the time that there are numerous things in our daily life for appreciating but we often ignore and do worry about the thing which will happen in future.
Be attentive and don’t do repetitive things
You must have noticed my irregularities with my blog. These days, I do just one post in a week. I took this decision after thinking for a long time. Actually, I was not able to adjust my blog schedule with my other responsibilities which made me tensed and worried. Because in all this my whole schedule used to get messed up. Then I decided to do it. Actually, we have to limit our work bounds as without boundaries we can go on and on. So you need to select one thing at a time and get along with it and soon you will be surprised to see so much of your tasks completed.
Take out some personal time for yourself and enjoy it to the fullest
If you want to be a human and don’t want to lead a robotic life you need to take out some private time for yourself and just do whatever you want to and enjoy it to the fullest.
So, in the end, I would conclude by saying that only focusing on future is not the way to go, you have to give some time to the present as well so as to maintain a balance between them. Thinking about your life is important but getting some time off and living for yourself is also important. These are the ways I think are the most probable and will help others too.
Coming to my outfit-
I wanted to dress up a little but stay warm at the same time. So, I slipped into this beautiful black and grey dress and a pair of grey tights (because black’s too boring). I love these tights, they are so gorgeous and keep my legs pretty warm at the same time! Layered up with a classy trench coat to keep myself warm on a nice sunny winter afternoon. Completed my outfit with my trusted ankle boots and a lovely new green bag. What do you think about this muted yet classy winter outfit?
Trenchcoat – Old Here
Dress – Old Here
Tights – Old Here
Boots – Old Here
Bag – Lulu & Sky