Sometimes it feels that nothing is going right in our lives. You feel disappointed, disheartened, upset and discouraged. The reasons may be different whether you or your loved ones are suffering from ill health, taking care of your broken heart or facing a downside in career, whenever such a situation comes in the lives we often give up our hopes and expectations and lose our positivity. It’s said that we should never lose our courage and hope but it’s not easy, it’s not easy at all. Trying to look some sun shines of happiness in completely dark conditions is really arduous but you gain the ability to deal with problems. I have faced some extremely tough days in my life and am still struggling with circumstances. Sometimes I feel all courage and spirit going in vain but then I know I can’t change anything by worrying. I have learned to remember these things when I feel like everything in my life has gone wrong.
Pain makes you stronger
Everything that comes in your life arrives with a purpose. Nothing is wasteful in life. People get pain due to some reasons. What do you think what does
pain or sorrow must be having motive?? Is it just to make us feel bad or anything else??. I know that it causes pain but in some of the other way it makes us stronger and gets us ready to face the next upcoming challenges. Walking on a difficult path gives us task but at last, it bears the fruit too so losing hope is not the way to deal with the world and its real myths.
Nothing will last forever
There are many
circumstances when darkness prevails some way or the other and mostly the result comes out with people losing hope or in extreme conditions their lives. It should be given a thought that nothing can stay forever, neither people nor pain or darkness. What do these people think that taking their lives and leaving their loved ones behind in grief will give them satisfaction or happiness? The answer is NO so why don’t we understand that nothing is permanent so one or the other day the darkness which has prevailed their lives will soon be outwitted by sunshine and once again their life will take a new turn. So if you just have old rotting thinking you can go on with it … Or find a way to get out from there.
Pain can be the mark of pride
If taken with positivity, can it be a source of pride? Yes, pain can be the mark of pride, if taken with positivity. If you get the scars and marks of pain you should be proud as from these scars and marks you have learned something. You are getting ready to face the hardships of the world and outwit them easily. In the beginning, it may feel bad or you start getting scared but sooner if you have a strong will or proper control over your emotions you will be able to understand this that these marks will make me proud. The toughest people who became legends today didn’t get the path so easily they also faced the same hardships and harsh attitude like you are facing. So
be positive and don’t fear as this fear will tear your life.
Patience is the key
Hardships will always come in your way at some time or the other but what is the thing that you need to keep with you and not lose it till the end. The answer is patience. The term patience is the key that will help you keep steady and calm with the tasks of the world. So if you lose patience you will lose yourself in this world crowd. So keeping
patience will always result in a happy ending.
So just losing hope isn’t a solution to a problem you have to keep some courage and patience and worrying.
So whenever you find yourself in a miserable condition, when all your effort goes fruitless, when nothing is in your hands, don’t be afraid to get right back and try your hundred per cent and believe in that Almighty. Why be afraid when you tried your best, all will be good. Believe in yourself and in your God. He tests you, examines you and then soothes with all His blessing. We should remember that as the storm passes away, the light comes after a dark night healing always follows hurt. Problems make you stronger, pains give you courage. You just should know that sometimes you have to go through some tough days has to get you some pleasant and smiling moments.
Coming to my outfit:
Now about my today’s outfit, it’s a simple and regular outfit which I usually wear for going outside. I wore a pair of khaki jeans with a grey coloured top(the top is inside my pullover so you can’t see it:) ) I covered myself with my new black turtleneck pullover which I bought recently from the Christmas sale. The pullover is so fine and very cosy and comfortable. I finished this look with a pair of boots which are also very comfy and a bag. What do you think about this everyday winter outfit?
I’m wearing:
Pullover – Vero Moda
Jeans – Xpose
Boots – Old here
Bag – Old here
You look so classy. Have a great week! xx
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Thank you so much <3
Thanks for this inspiring post! Love this cozy chic look.
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Thanks dear 🙂
You speak such wise thoughts Rakhshanda!
It’s unrealistic to think that nothing bad will happen to us in our lifetime. And these are the things that really shape us. And make us empathetic. Along with giving us the tools to create a better life!
It’s certainly not fun to go through these times, but it does make the happy times better in comparison.
Merry Christmas to you and your family!!
OXOX
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Thanks, dear Jodie, you are right that it’s really tough to face such an unpleasant situation in life but it’s a reality of this life. Such a situation gives us courage and makes us stronger. Hope you must have celebrated a wonderful Christmas.
OXOX
So cozy and stylish!
Such a lovely post!
I wish you a Merry Christmas, darling!
Kisses, Paola.
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Thanks, dear and wish you the same.
I really adore this classy and fashonable outfit, you look fab as always!
Merry Christmas my dear!
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Thanks love, wishing you the same.
I definitely think patience is key! Working and relieving from pain just takes time and we should focus on rehabbing and recovery. Thanks for your sharing your thoughts1
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Agree with you, it takes time, we only need to be patient. Thanks love <3
I love how you write, our style depends on our thoughts and that shows on ur post. I really loved ur style
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Thanks dear <3
Beautiful photos Rakhshanda!
I agree pain makes you stronger. I hope your hubby is doing fine. You are looking lovely in black.
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Thanks, dear for your best wishes <3
Very nicely written dear… You are right, patience is the key and sometimes failure makes you stronger… You are looking amazing in all the pics.
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Thanks love <3
Great Post! Also great Outfit, you look fantastic <3
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Thanks honey 🙂
this was a beautiful post! thank you for sharing! I like your yellow pants!
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